Most neurodiversity initiatives fail for one reason: they're designed to help neurodivergent people fit in better. Stop trying to fix people. Start fixing systems. Accommodation mindset (which is what most cultures use) says: "We have a standard way of working. If you can't do it that way, we'll make exceptions." The message neurodivergent employees hear: "You're the problem. We'll help you fit in better." This creates:  Shame (needing to be "accommodated")  Isolation (being